What exactly is a date? It’s a meeting with a member of the opposite sex at a time determined at least a few hours in advance. It takes a modicum of planning and commitment. The Challenge: For three months, I don’t want you to go on a single date with a girl you haven’t already had sex with.Should you choose to accept this challenge, you will display extreme reluctance in getting phone numbers before either make outs or strong displays of interest on the girl’s part.

Her number is not even in your mind because you’re going for it all—the vagina. Your only option for meeting a girl is via texting while you’re already out by inviting her to the place you’re at. I undertook this challenge last summer, and the results were telling: I got more bangs with the prettiest girls than any other summer in DC. Remember that I did all this without having to seduce a girl on a date (the “dates” I went on were with girls I had already defiled).

Today’s culture is making girls so used to getting what they want when they want it that dating unnecessarily delays their entitled pleasure. I took advantage of that through my normal strategy of Always Be Weaseling (ABW), where I push for a venue change to her place or my father’s car at the end of the night. Unfortunately, things are a little different in the winter. Therefore I don’t recommend you try this experiment when it’s cold outside since it may not be clear how effective it really is

If you already have a few one-night stands under your belt, meaning you know at least one way to make it work, I’m confident the no-dating strategy will lead to more sex for you. The irony of this technique is that it led to more “mini-relationships” for me with girls who did not flake on subsequent dates. There’s an anti-flaking strategy right there for you: kiss the girl immediately before you even need to use the phone.